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Last post 05-22-2007 13:15 by pennyt. 18 replies.
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  • 05-06-2007 13:23 Post ID: 110,688 

    book not sent

    I am fairly new to readitswapit (about 2 months) and I wanted to say that my experience so far has generally been very positive. I have completed some fantastic swaps and now have a massive pile of books to read. However I guess I have also beeen unlucky as I haven't received a book after it was agreed at the end of March. How common is this problem? Readitswapit were very helpful and the user is currently suspended although I still don't have the book and I guess that I probably won't. I see that 2 other people have also left feedback this week and haven't received their books either. The member was still logging on up until about a week ago! She never replied to any e-mails I sent and hasn't left feeedback for me. I hope this is a fairly rare problem and that I have been unlucky to encounter it so early on. All my other swaps have been great and I have come across many friendly people.

     

  • 05-06-2007 13:29 Post ID: 110,696  In reply to

    • irishmist
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    Re: book not sent

    hugs hunni, i have been swapping over a year and only had 3 bad swaps as in books not arrived ...x

  • 05-06-2007 13:54 Post ID: 110,717  In reply to

    Re: book not sent

    I'm sorry you've experienced a bad swap at such an early stage but these are few and far between and you did right to notify admin so that rogue users can be suspended.  The vast majority of members are completely trustworthy, I'm v lucky in so far as I've been swapping over a year now and have had nothing but positive experiences.  Hope you continue swapping and reading!




  • 05-06-2007 14:43 Post ID: 110,750  In reply to

    • pennyt
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    Re: book not sent

    Sorry you've had a bad swap, but as the others have said it is extremely rare.  I had a similar experience quite early on, never got the book, but since then I have done well over 250 swaps with no problems whatsoever - in fact, almost all of them have been delightful.  I'm afraid all you can do is write this one off, and not let it put you off what is the most brilliant site with (in the main) the friendliest and most helpful bunch of people. 
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  • 05-06-2007 23:55 Post ID: 111,626  In reply to

    • annecater
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    Re: book not sent

    I have to agree with the replies here.  I've done over 300 swaps (I think!) and only 2 have not arrived.  So on the whole we are a pretty trustworthy bunch - please dont let this put you off








  • 05-07-2007 1:37 Post ID: 111,640  In reply to

    Re: book not sent

    tania895:
    However I guess I have also beeen unlucky as I haven't received a book after it was agreed at the end of March. How common is this problem? Readitswapit were very helpful and the user is currently suspended although I still don't have the book and I guess that I probably won't. I see that 2 other people have also left feedback this week and haven't received their books either. The member was still logging on up until about a week ago! She never replied to any e-mails I sent and hasn't left feeedback for me. I hope this is a fairly rare problem and that I have been unlucky to encounter it so early on. All my other swaps have been great and I have come across many friendly people.

    When I first joined I had quite a few 'sticky' swaps (I'm unbelievably unlucky and attract such things like a magnet... I definitely had more than the average quota of swapping problems), but I've only had one person not send a book, and she was suspended, too. You probably won't get your book now, it's true, but don't give up on swapping. I view it like this... if I had wanted the book then I wouldn't have put it up for swapping, so it's just a wee bit more space on my overcrowded bookshelves, and RISI has given me far more than I could have hoped for. It's so great that the good folk running the site are really responsive to any and all problems, and that combined with people like Hecate here on the forums convinced me to hang in there. I don't regret it, and you won't, either.
    Geeked


     

  • 05-07-2007 8:48 Post ID: 111,670  In reply to

    • seanat
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    Re: book not sent

    i've done ahem....nearly 300 swaps and only once has someone not sent the book, although a few have needed reminding by support before they've done so.
    shame to get unlucky early, but i feel it's worth the risk.
    most people are very honest, good luck swapping.

    Currently reading: If Today be Sweet by Thrity Umrigar (library)
  • 05-07-2007 8:50 Post ID: 111,672  In reply to

    • Frances51
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    Re: book not sent

    I'm sorry to go off the original topic . . . but . . .

    Baffiebabe, it's clear from your post that you've been swapping for a while but it says under your name that you joined on the 4th May this year. Does that mean that if you started posting on the forums when they changed - or perhaps changed your name at that time so that forum name and swap name matched - that you were given a joining date which is different from the date that you actually started swapping.

    That sounds horribly convoluted - but I hope you can understand what I mean. 

  • 05-07-2007 8:53 Post ID: 111,675  In reply to

    • Frances51
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    Re: book not sent

    Actually I've just noticed how stupid my last post is.

    We've all got joining dates which start with the new forum! It's funny that I noticed yours but didn't notice my own or anyone else's! 

  • 05-07-2007 11:06 Post ID: 111,756  In reply to

    Re: book not sent

    Thanks everyone - I am certainly not going to give up book swapping - far too addictive!!! I have read so many really good books because of it. I had really come to the same conclusion as baffiebabe that it doesn't matter as it is one less book on my shelves and I would have given it too the charity shop anyhow. Husband keeps nagging me as he says that are shelves are groaning and that RISI is not helping as I am simply replacing them not getting rid although I think he is secretly pleased that i am not spending a fortune on Amazon anymore!!! I am relieved that not receiving books is a rare occurance anyhow.
  • 05-07-2007 16:41 Post ID: 112,063  In reply to

    Re: book not sent

    Just to back up what evryone else has said I have done 135 swaps and not one has gone wrong. I have had a couple of very badly described books but nothing I couldn't read!!

     Hang in there. There are far too many good people for this site to go wrong!!

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  • 05-07-2007 19:27 Post ID: 112,196  In reply to

    Re: book not sent

    Frances51:

    I'm sorry to go off the original topic . . . but . . .

    Baffiebabe, it's clear from your post that you've been swapping for a while but it says under your name that you joined on the 4th May this year. Does that mean that if you started posting on the forums when they changed - or perhaps changed your name at that time so that forum name and swap name matched - that you were given a joining date which is different from the date that you actually started swapping.

    That sounds horribly convoluted - but I hope you can understand what I mean.

    hehe... not a problem. I was wondering the same thing myself. I think that's because I just set up my profile on the new board, even though my ID and email addresses were the same on both sites. I joined last summer, and my first post was apparently on the 8th of August, so I don't really know what's going on with that. I haven't been incredibly active on the boards... I tend to go in spurts. Maybe that has something to do with it? It would be nice if it said when I really joined, but like you said, if anyone looks up my posts they'd see that I've been around a while, so I guess it doesn't much matter. Maybe I'll get lucky as they sort things out and it will have the proper date.
     

  • 05-07-2007 19:38 Post ID: 112,217  In reply to

    Re: book not sent

    tania895:
    Thanks everyone - I am certainly not going to give up book swapping - far too addictive!!! .

     

    You have that right... I went into a frenzy of swapping, and one day I sat down and calculated how much I'd spent on postage and it came to over £200 in less than 2 months. I had to shut my swaps down until after xmas so I could recover, and for the most part now I'm just accepting swaps that other people initiate. Hard sometimes to keep a lid on it, though. I'm a confessed bookaholic. Bad bad bad.
    Devil 

    One thing I'm doing is offering a two-for-one on a lot of my books. When I was younger I didn't take such good care of my books as I do now, so some of them are pretty shabby, though readable. To make up for it I give people a choice for a second one, which will hopefully decrease some of the groaning on my bookshelves. Not that many people have taken me up on it, though. Oh, well. I live in hope.
    Wink

    Oh, and I *still* haven't read my first swap book. Stick out tongue 

  • 05-07-2007 22:56 Post ID: 112,501  In reply to

    Re: book not sent

    I don't think it's that common. I've done 230 swaps over a year and I'm having my first problem now in not receiving a book from someone. User has been suspended and I probably won't receive the book but I think it's pretty good going to do so many and only have one bad one in all 230 so I don't think it's a majorly common problem but it does happen. I hope it doesn't put you off swapping!
  • 05-10-2007 18:47 Post ID: 115,509  In reply to

    Re: book not sent

    Hugs hun, never had a bad swap neither.
    Love n hugs
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